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Letter on Forgiveness

Dear Cornelia,
I would love to be in conversation about forgiveness and perhaps share my experience working with people over the years. One of the most difficult aspects of forgiveness is the paradox of memory. Events in our lives are cemented into memory by one of two things or both in combination. Number one is emotional [...]

What is Surrender?

Surrender is not a word that we like to use. Commonly it means giving up, quitting or admitting defeat.  As I use the word in this writing, it suggests it has a much deeper meaning. Surrender means letting go of struggle and allowing “what is” to be present in our lives. This may sound a little strange, [...]

Are You With the Right Person?

Relationship Tune Up

Today is a great day to stop fooling around and really create the relationship you want and deserve. Most relationships reach points of equilibrium where they are just “ok”.  Not good, not bad, just cruising along. If you like it that way read no further.
If you want to add a little more read on.
It is [...]

Sexual Intimacy: Who Are We Talking To?

For committed couples: If you want more sexual intimacy, talk more. According to article in Men’s Heath Magazine, Sept. Couples spend more time talking with other people about their sexuality than they do talking with each other. Sharing intimate facts about yourself or even complaining to others often creates distance between people and they may [...]

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