I am not talking about making love behind the shelf with the fifty gallons or pepto bismol or the twenty-five pound cans of nutmeg.

I refer here to the ability to have a great shared experience even when you are doing something as mundane as shopping.  Shopping is a wonderful activity to do together. You must be awake and open to having a good time.  You can watch your partner and see what really lights them up and what puts a smile on their face.

You don’t have to buy anything necessarily, just walk and talk and learn.  Of course, if you see shopping as a burden or boring you will create that experience, but the challenge is to have a good time.

Take your time and talk as you walk along. Costco is inexpensive Disney-Land. Enjoy your partner!

Write a few comments here on unique places you have created intimacy with your partner.

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